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It's weird because for the longest time when I was younger and until quite recently actually, I always thought that I had to go out there and play the numbers game when it came to girls. This approach whilst I am sure it works for some, to me it was an exhausting , pointless conversation with people only because I felt that was what I was supposed to be doing. To make things worse, a lot of the time the other person though awesome and fantastic didn't really have any of the interests which I have. It's weird but there are a lot of places which I always saw and thought " it'd be nice to go there with X ", and for some reason, it was as if this particular place would only be really fun if it was with someone I was attracted to. Around this time, I was exposed to the Gospel of " focus on yourself " which I had heard preached before but refused to really understand. Then I got my feelings hurt. And well ladies and gentlemen, I converted pretty quickly. It's been a pretty fun journey, weird how not making other people be your focus, attracts them even more. So my advice to you is to just relax and have fun, do what you enjoy and go to the places you want. That's what I've been doing, the only " X" person that I need is myself, and that's given me a lot of good memories. Think about the perfect partner for you. close our eyes and think,  what are their best qualities?  what do they do for you? what are the characteristics that they have which attracted you to them? Now go work on becoming that person to yourself.